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Defining the Concept of Image From Deep Inside

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Every time someone contacts me because he or she is interested in improving their image, our initial conversations begin by defining the concept of image.  I ask each individual why he or she is interested in the possibility of working together.  Their answers play an important part in defining the concept of image.  Since image covers several fields of study, it’s important for me to understand how an individual is defining the concept of image.  Not only does it end up being the basis for how we may work together, but it helps people get clear about why this is an important pursuit and goal.

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10 Ways To Exude Confidence At Work

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My list of 10 ways to exude confidence at work is inspired by a recent Forbes.com article, How To Be More Confident At Work, which caught my attention for a couple of important reasons. Truth is, looking and feeling confident in your 9-5 isn’t just about wearing the right clothes.  It’s about your attitude.

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Lessons From Whitney: Learning to Love Yourself Is the Greatest Love Of All

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With a voice peerless in her generation and looks to match, Whitney Houston seemed to have it all.

A young Whitney Houston sung the lyric, “Learning to love yourself, it is the greatest love of all,” on her debut album back in 1985, released a few months after my dad passed away.  Could she have known that loving herself would be the challenge of her life?

That song – and the entire album – helped me through a very rough time in my young life.  Even more importantly, the sound of that musical compilation – and that voice – inspired a generation.

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When Your Image and Style Are Frozen It’s Time to Change

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When was the last time you looked at the clothing in your closet and said, “these are some awesome clothes?!”  It’s a terrible feeling to open your closet door day after day to a wardrobe to look at every morning that you feel disconnected from.  Time and again, clients tell me just how often they feel frozen when looking at their clothes to dress in the morning, to go out at night, as well as for special occasions.  This arresting feeling is not a promising way to begin any day of work, of leisure, or an exciting night out.

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A Woman’s Closet: Often A Journey To Finding A New Identity

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When I started my image consulting practice, I catered specifically to men because of my extensive menswear background and my perceived comfort zone.  But a few years ago, an especially determined woman contacted me, explaining that what she read on my website spoke directly to her.  She practically insisted we find a way to work together.  It pleases me to make a difference in others’ lives.  So thanks to her, I now work with many fabulous women.

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What Do Your Clothes Say About You?

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If your clothes could talk, and believe me, they do, what would they tell others about you?  You may not be aware of it, but what you wear sends clear messages to others, and subliminal messages to yourself.  People who see you regularly don’t make a determination about you because they see you in just one outfit.  It’s your parade of outfits that collectively say everything about you.  Even more importantly, your very own clothes are sure to enhance or alter the way you see and feel about yourself.

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Purging Your Wardrobe: Letting Go and The Certainty Factor

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Why is purging our closets always so damned painful.  I think it has a lot to do with something I call The Certainty Factor.

The Certainty Factor is a principle based on variables of knowledge and confidence.  It’s hard to let go of possessions if you don’t know what you’re replacing them with – even if you know that what you’re holding onto could be replaced with something better.  If you don’t have the new and improved yet, why let go what you have?

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7 Image Mistakes People Make

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Over the past twenty years as an image consultant, people have often asked me what are the biggest mistakes people make when it comes to their personal iamge.  So, in the spirit of helping you and your friends start 2011 on the right foot, here’s a list of the 7 biggest mistakes people constantly make.  It’s really important to know what these mistakes are because , if you are making them yourself, I can consult with you and help show you a better way to see yourself and look authentically your best and mistake free.

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The Road Less Traveled…

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As our European vacation was drawing near, many friends, family, colleagues, and clients questioned a meaty portion of our travel itinerary.  No one questioned the logic of our traveling to the Cote d’Azur for some frolicking fun, French style.  No one questioned our curiosity to check out Monaco’s cachet or to see the perfection of tiny and tony Portofino along the Italian Riviera.  And everyone knows we have an ongoing love affair with Paris.  No one would dare accuse us of any wrongdoing in going there.

Whomever questioned our travel logic – seemingly a legion – wondered, why Genoa, Italy, though?  Good question.

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