Freaked Out In The Closet

Shop Your ClosetWhen is the last time you freaked out in the closet?  Was it just today?  Or is it an everyday occurrence?

I’ve been working with several clients who have been doing just that.  One recently realized that she wanted to look fashionable, but that her clothes were not.  Another client had a closet full of clothes but couldn’t figure out how to create outfits.   One more client has been preparing for a trip and is feeling lots of pressure because she realizes that her existing stylish clothes won’t all work for the type of vacation she’s taking, and she’s got just two weeks to get it all pulled together.  They have each freaked out in the closet.

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In With The Old

 

At Prato's Museo del Tessuto, piles of old clothes are arranged to simulate the atmosphere inside a textile factory where 'pickers' sort old clothes into categories so that the fabrics may be reused in current fashion.

At Prato’s Museo del Tessuto, piles of old clothes are arranged to simulate the atmosphere inside a textile factory where ‘pickers’ sort old clothes into categories so that the fabrics may be reused in current fashion.

One of the most common adages we all like to use at this time of year is “Out with the old, and in with the new.”  But what’s wrong with being in with the old?

I was entirely consumed with this thought while in Florence over the holidays because, as the birthplace of the Renaissance, it’s a place that continually looks back to the past and makes it fresh again.  In fact, Florentine scholars, artists, and scientists during the Renaissance have been famously credited with giving new life and meaning to ideas from antiquity.

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Don’t Spend Big Money on Clothes Only to Look Sub Par

Having spent hundreds of hours in the closets of my clients, I can honestly tell you that the top experience is when they realize that they spend big money on clothes that are not wearable.  With eyes wide open, they realize how they have squandered their hard earned money into clothes that sit idle in the closet.  The average dollar value of clothes sitting idle in my clients’ closets could be worth the value of a car!  If you think of your closet as a garage filled with a car’s worth of parts and equipment that you can’t put together and drive, you wouldn’t stand for it.

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Absolutely What Not To Wear!

I regularly catch Ms. London “falling down.” Not even an airbrushed image can protect her air of perfect advice.

We’ve all been subjected to these TV shows or segments that are “what not to wear” oriented.  The concept was perhaps made most famous by fashion stylist Stacy London, who hosts the a show, “What Not To Wear” on TLC and also pops up on programs like “Today” doing segments like the one that caught my eye – or was it my ire – just before the holidays.

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Quality and Qualities

An image consultant colleague recently posed the issue of quality to her Facebook friends and followers and it generated several responses including my own.  This all came about because a Nordstrom sales associate [who she referred to as a “clerk”] said to her, “Buy quality, cry only once.”  So the colleague wondered what anyone thought of this statement.

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Men’s Holiday Style: Comfort and Joy

The holiday season is fast approaching and some wardrobe planning will go a long way toward making the most of your holiday experience.  Once you know your holiday plans, the next thing you should get in order is what you’ll wear for your various holiday occasions.  If you’re looking for ideas on what to wear for the holidays, I offer these helpful suggestions to take you from Thanksgiving through New Year’s Eve.

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Is Shopping Your Closet Right For You?

One idea that has popped up this year is to shop your own closet – instead of a store – with your favorite image consultant.

I think shopping your closet is a fantastic way to reinvent the wardrobe, but there is a huge caveat to this concept.  You’ve got to have a fairly extensive wardrobe in order to make shopping your closet a sensible pursuit.  Based on the way my clients have been shopping with me lately, I don’t think everyone is capable of shopping their closets to reinvent their existing wardrobes.

To be plainly honest, many of my clients are taking this time to develop their wardrobes by focusing on a particular need.  While some are building an appropriate work wardrobe, others are realizing a need to develop a personal style for socializing, dating, and for traveling.  If an aspect of your wardrobe, either professional or personal, is underdeveloped, the idea of shopping your closet may be just as much as a fantasy as the season’s trendy fall fashions.

So how and when can shopping your closet benefit you?  If you are fortunate to have a closet full of clothes but are in the unfortunate position of thinking you have nothing to wear, that’s a prime sign it’s time to shop your closet.  You might have underutilized gems lurking around that could become new stars.  Combing through your wardrobe to eliminate pieces that drain it of your energy is very helpful.  Sometimes all you can see are those items you never want to wear.  Yet there they are, staring right back at you like a bad dream.

Psychologically, ridding your closet of unnecessary items can be challenging.  Can you afford to let go of things you paid money for?  I tend to wonder more deeply whether you can afford to feel drained by a wardrobe that isn’t doing its job for you.  So I honor the challenges you might face by this challenge, but I also see and would want to honor the opportunity that this process poses.

When you look at your wardrobe with fresh, new eyes the greatest benefit you can expect is freedom.  There’s freedom from limiting items that don’t support your body, messages, and goals.  And there’s freedom from doing the same ole, same ole.  Try something new with something old, and experience something fresh.  Treat yourself to and mix in a few new key items, and more than the wardrobe is transformed – you are offered some sense of renewal.

It’s an exciting time to be taking stock of your wardrobe as it pertains to your image.  It always feels wonderful being complimented about how good you’re looking. These days we can all use a pick-me-up.  But it’s better still when you open that closet, knowing it’s filled like your own customized boutique, and you see yourself looking back at you, seeing only good choices to wear.

Designing and managing your image is the secret science of your success.

Joseph Rosenfeld helps professional men and corporate workgroups create effective visual brands. Visit JosephRosenfeld.com for details.

“Monster” Image Tips for the 40+ Jobseeker

A couple months ago I was interviewed for a spot on Monster.com about what aging men should do to appear competitive in the job market. Published late last week, I’m grateful for the exposure the piece provided. Since the article also included information about sprucing up the resume and using social media sites, the author could never have included all the tips and tricks I shared with her.

The tips the author did cover in the article are:
• Update your interviewing clothes if you haven’t been shopping in a while
• Maintain a modern hairstyle and visit a hair stylist before that interview
• Boost your confidence and mental acuity through physical fitness

I thought I’d give you a few more tips to help you score that job.

Use clothing to power you up or power you down.
The overall effect of your clothing and accessories’ style, fit, and color has an effect on your interviewer. You want to ensure it’s the right effect. Are you known as a go-getter? The right outfit will help support that attitude. But if the position you seek is executive level, you may have to power down the look that conveys you’re a doer deep down so you can show up to the interview looking like a director. So for instance, lots of color and pattern appears active to the eye and is emblematic of an active personality. But opting for an interview outfit with few colors directs the focus onto you and shows you as a person in control.

If you’re the quieter type, powering up your look is a great way to boost your self-confidence. Do a practice interview in a shirt and khakis and then put on your interview suit and accessories and get feedback about how you sound. Undoubtedly you’ll hear that you sounded better when you looked better. Why? Most likely, subconsciously, you felt better. Popping your outfit with a color accenting your eye or red skin tone, along with wearing a garment with strong a strong angular line will give you a bolder, more energetic appearance.

Visit your tailor if your clothing doesn’t fit.
Let’s face it. Not all of us have fared so well economically lately. As tempting as it is to just purchase new clothing for the job interview, it’s not always practical. So if your cash receivables are as tight as the fit of your suit pants, a visit to the tailor may ease the stress of unemployment and you’ll feel better at the interview, too.

Maybe you don’t wear a suit so often. One of the worst effects of wearing a garment you’re unfamiliar with is wearing one that’s not familiar with you either. By making sure it fits well before you need to wear it, you’ll sit properly and comfortably during the interview and you won’t be fidgeting over your clothes or wondering just how much your stomach protruded over the waistline of your trousers.

Don’t try to compete on looks with the 20-somethings.
Hey, your train left the station some time ago. Don’t get off track by looking back at what should have been because you notice a newer locomotive leaving the garage.

Looking age appropriate, while maintaining a modern, up-to-date style, is so important. You don’t want to be typecast as being ‘older,’ which happens when your clothing and hairstyle is outmoded. This points to the symbiotic relationship between you and your clothes. Old clothes equal an old “you.” New clothes equal a new “you.” So at the very least get your old clothes updated, as I all ready suggested.

If you do act on my advice and go on the hunt for something new, be sure it’s updated to reflect who you are today, not who you once were, or who you wish you could once again be. Avoid looking collegiate to appear younger. ‘Over compensating’ is a poor decision. Don’t dress for the job you’ve presently got or the job you’ve just had. Move forward in your mind and manifest it through your style.

Designing and managing your image is the secret science to your success.

Joseph Rosenfeld helps professional men and corporate workgroups create effective visual brands. Visit JosephRosenfeld.com for details.

Paris, Here We Come!

We’re just about packed, thank goodness. I’ve had an enjoyable time contemplating what to pack for a two week wintertime trip to the City of Lights. Paris is a city that can bring out the romantic in just about anyone. For me, that means packing enough clothes to look and feel special without going overboard. For example, nothing that we’re doing will require formal attire; so I’ve packed no neckwear, not even a suit.

I’d describe the overall mood of what I packed as ‘sophisticated-sexy,’ with leather shirts, body-conscious knit sweater tops as highlights with beautifully colored, patterned shirts, and even a gorgeously textured and versatile sport coat, for a few dressier occasions. So I plan to be chic yet comfortable, fashionable and sexy, enjoying Paris with my partner. What on Earth could be better?

As you can tell, the trip has all ready begun. Preparing and packing is actually when the trip begins. And, if you give yourself ample time for packing, it can be a totally enjoyable experience. You can envision when you’ll wear one particular outfit, and where you will be when you get the chance to wear another, and so on. Clothes are such an obvious part of our daily lives that making selections can seem mundane. But here I found myself wowed with my selections and looking forward to chilly, rainy Paris.

More soon, from Paris!!!